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Find Joy in Your Journey

It was a grateful journey in Abu Dhabi finding this blog again aftersometime.

I was daydreaming until I find myself writing again. This time I am home.. in the Philippines with my family ūüôā

It was an epic vacation and even I, was not able to forsee that I was not going back. All I know is that I have prayed and asked to regain my strength and joy.

I may not have gained those materialistic and monetary achievements when I came home but memories of good friends (phenomenal people ever I have met), of community services and church activities I have gone through with my Circle of Hands Choir and Singles for Christ Family, unforgettable work experiences and professional people who has shared their knowledge, difficult people who has made me a deep realization to hold more unto God’s grace and mercy, generous people who has supported me financially, emotionally and spiritually, House Hold sisters in Christ whom have given and shared ample of faith, hope and love, loving bestfriends who has been with me through my best and worst, was enough provision on the hardwork as an OFW.

It was a tough yet unregrettable journey of my life.

It was unforgettable of both good and not so good memories.

Painful or gainful? No it won’t matter at all… because it will never be good enough unless with the guidance of our Lord, Jesus Christ.

Above all else, God is good all the time! ūüėäūüėäūüėä

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I’m sharing this last journey of my blog in Abu Dhabi… my heart is wide open to the unseen blessings that are yet to come!

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“Finding the missing piece in you is like reaching the moon, ¬†counting the stars and seeing the biggest star on which you have wished to see it also in the daylight…”

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The Lord has saved me from my selfish desires that I have come unto this journey where I cannot boast. Wherein, I put my whole trust unto His promises of taking good care of me wherever I may go. Apart from Him I can do nothing. May I always be attentive unto listening and doing what pleases Him.

I am praying that when I come back, I’ll be matured enough to be a good daughter, sister, friend, servant of the church and a future partner. Forever I will praise Him. These I proclaim and ask through our Lord Jesus Christ, Amen.

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Variety, the Spice of Life!

Variety, we call them the spices of life. There are uncontrollable moments that we will feel uncomfortable to some people, some instances, and some responsibilities. At first we will not notice it because we don’t want to feel about it and in defense to that we would ignore it as much as we can. But the truth is God wants us to be faithful in asking Him what’s beyond that uncomfortable feeling we felt.

He wants us to be humble in asking Him a help unto approaching that person/ that responsibility in which we thought it’s impossible to be approached/ accomplished. He wants us to be prayerful and ask Him for his ways not to be dependent on our own conclusions and ignore what’s beyond our uncomfortable zone. He wants us to realize that a humble heart can speak more than any other actions which our hands/feet can do.

Differences may vary difficulties in life of every individual but always remember that there’s a reason for everything.images

Some people with superiority make themselves proud at being perfect.

They we’re firm in what they believed in. Their wisdom and confidence has been an inspiration to become a great leader. But there are people who don’t want to think and hear on what others believed in. Some people will find fault from someone whom they think they can manipulate. They point out who’s to blame in every difficulty they find. They don’t want to see unnecessary things in their sight.

They want others to keep on pampering them but they don’t want to understand some people who felt inferiority. They want to be respected yet they confidently humiliate people whom they can tear down. It’s like they’ve sown a chili seed yet they waited for a sweet corn to bear. What you sow is what you reap.

On the other hand, people with inferiority make themselves the least on the list.

There are some instances in your life that made you feel of your unworthy presence. You were in a struggle. You were broken. You want to get rid those unnecessary things you are seeing right now. You want to see yourself free from those people who tamed you. People who broke your heart and made you feel unworthy.

You want something new. You needed an emotional support on your worth. Basically, you want change.

We can choose on what to change within our lives but not the kindness which God has sown into our heart. Changes are good but make sure you change for the improvement of your characteristic on which could help others instead.  If the change has become bitter, change the focus of your heart. Let God change the selfish desires of your heart.

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Furthermore, I learned that variety isn’t a bad thing at all. Let the chili seed grow at its finest labor and let the sweet corn seed be the sweetest as it is. These two may vary in taste but of same function. To fill what our taste bud needs.

People vary in excellence and it is fine. We do vary in different ways but of the same function: to love and be loved, to give and to receive, to be blessed and be a blessing to others..

If you fail, try again. Failure isn’t the last page of your story. It keeps you moving. It keeps you dreaming. It keeps you planning. And the best part of it, is that you are learning. And instead of complaining, you kneel down and you kept on praying. That’s the spirit!

Trusting in God’s perfect timing in the midst of waiting is the best way of keeping yourself renewed and motivated.

Don’t give up.

Cheer up!

Remember what God has promised us:

Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.

2 Chronicles 15:7¬† But you, take courage! Do not let your hands be weak, for your work shall be rewarded.‚ÄĚ

Isaiah 41:10 Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Joshua 1:9 ¬†Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the¬†Lord your God is with you wherever you go.‚ÄĚ

1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

Hebrews 13:5-6 Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said,

‚ÄúNever will I leave you;¬†never will I forsake you.‚ÄĚ

So we say with confidence,

‚ÄúThe Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid.¬†What can mere mortals do to me?‚ÄĚ

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as the scripture says:

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. (John 13:34 ).

 

May God be praised forever! Amen.

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First Love

First love never dies?

I didn’t asked you who/ what was or is your first love but you simply smiled and think of him, her or it already. Whatever or whoever first came into your mind either a person, a career, or a vocation. It is indeed your first love.

How would you like to describe your first love?
Is it your past or present?
If it’s painful, does it made you think how to measure love? Or how would you love again?
If it’s your present, does it made you the best person who can build others up? Or does it made your heart completely love God the most? A lot of questions only yourself can reflect and meditate.

Your first love who made your world go round as they say. Your first love who taught you to share, to give affection, to trust, to build a dream and a goal to forever.

Sometimes, your first love is to be a teacher but with the past circumstances, you chose the other field. And others have known their first love was His calling and others are still in their search. For others, their first love is their present and now married. For others, it’s in the past and learned so much from it. And though years has gone without your first love, you can still measure the happiness and of course the pain.

It’s been two years when the first love has gone. When the first has turned to be a past and seemed to be unreachable.
And when you tried again, your kind of love story seemed to be a cycle of hoping, then suddenly hurting.
It may be painful but the reasons behind it is good and beneficial to us. It trains our heart, mind and soul to be strong in the first place.
But that strength sometimes overdrive us to be more independent. That you don’t need anything or anyone. Be careful no to. It will not heal you. It blocks your reason to love again.

When the false hope comes into you as if it was meant for you, have patience. It is not our plans and desires that gives us strength and motivation to move forward. There is reason for everything.
It saves us from total brokenness because those false hopes that hurt us is only for a day, a week or a month.

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But the first heartbreak, reminds us everything:
It reminds us to have faith in God’s perfect timing.
It reminds us to trust in His responses:
“Yes, No and WAIT”
It reminds us to never stop searching and loving, until you finally meet him or her.
It strengthens us.
It motivates us.
It drives us more closer to the one who will truly and faithfully love us.

 

It reminds us to love the one who first loved us:

 

1 John 4:19
We love because he first loved us.

 

Your will to love and be loved will make you the best person. Instead of breaking someone’s heart to know how it feels to win over your brokenness, be of good faith. Whatever it is that bothers you, take heed your faith. Good things comes to those who patiently wait, seek and discern for it. Trust in God. As the scripture say:

1 John 4:18

There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

Only through His will our hearts can be contented.

May God be praised forever, Amen!

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Pray, Help and Save Baby Carmela M. Libdan

Posting for baby Carmela M. Libdan, a baby suffering from BILIARY ATRESIA, who needs a Liver Transplant.

A message from her mother Ms. Gina Matamorosa:

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Please help us save baby Carmela. Any amount will be greatly appreciated. T-shirts are now available in any any sizes, color; Black & White.

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The Broken Guitar String

What’s the use of my broken guitar string?
Dried rose holder.
Used in my altar.

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There’s a reason for everything.

Even if it’s broken,

you cannot just throw things easily.

I was about to throw my broken guitar string, then I suddenly kept it in a box. My mind is telling me:
“If you focused on its brokenness, you will not find the other reason of its goodness on the other side”.
I set aside the fact that everything has its purpose.
Just as I imagined that life will be nothing if you’d view it on what’s in front of you alone. It’s kinda boring to see things that way. That’s why you get tired waiting on your turn. That’s why you’re feeling blue thinking that good things wouldn’t come.

Relax, if you feel like throwing things easily, slow down and believe in your instinct as they have called.

I let my other days pass and think: How shall it be useful to me? Why do I kept on keeping it while seeing its brokenness? I know¬†that it’s been of good use for a year and even if it’s broken, I know there’s something in it that can be useful to me.

So after a month keeping it, I come up with this creativity of mine and picked up my dried up rose whom I got from important people. It has been tied up with a rubber band. And now it’s totally broken and useless. The first thing that came into my mind was the broken guitar string. It was perfect for my altar at home.
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It’s good to know that whenever we are about to throw words, write a blog or even sing a song, there are certain person, certain instinct, and good conscience that will make you calm and will remind you: Ooops, what you are about to think, to speak, to write, to blog, to sing, and the most common used “FB status¬†or shout out might hurt others if you do it out of your emotional distress. Furthermore,¬†after seeing the things we’ve done, the latter will also¬†give you the reason to be patient, and will give you all the reasons why you have¬†to make things right on that very day.

Whenever you will feel brokenness, pray. Someone’s going to give advice, hug and especially pray with you. God will never leave you broken. I always claim that whenever I’m in that kind of situation.

Good things comes to those who wait patiently.

And to be patient is one of the greatest characteristic we can achieve.

It gives us the reason to listen, to replace any brokenness into calmness and to always love,  because LOVE is patient.

Whatever brokenness we might feel, let us not forget that above all else, “God is love” (1 John 4:8)¬†”

There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love. We love, because He first loved us. (1 John 4:18-19).

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May God be praised forever!
Amen!

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Search Me, O God, and Know My Heart

soul-searchimage114Maybe it’s time for you to ask : “How do you heal a broken soul?”

I do believe in the saying that “Time heals”. Our fighting spirit tells us: I’m okay, it’ll be alright. Someone will come to pick me up and fix what’s been broken. By that time, you have created a dream guy whom you will never let you feel unwanted or you could have created the person you wanted to be. With time, you create yourself a barrier to everything that your mind perceives which can give you hurt. By that time, you know what to do already since you have experienced it. By that time, you thought you’re ready again and you’ll never fall into the same situation.

What if the time doesn’t healed you. You were smiling but deep inside you were bleeding. You were with your friends, family or even with a special someone but you still felt the emptiness. You can’t pause the world and say things like: Please, not now. You cannot just put all the dramas in your life while dealing with different people like: don’t pressure me, you don’t know what I’m going through. That’s why, our typical reaction when things worn out might be repellent to others. Worst, there hides the bitterness, that comes out naturally, where you weren’t able to control yourself, saying: “Oooops! I did it again… I’m sorry ūüė• I didn’t mean it”. You’re still trying to be nice. But whatever that’s been done is from our heart. No one can deny it.

Part of you is saying that you’re still broken, but you’re denying it since you saw a happy face in front of the mirror.

Personally, I admit it. I’m one of them who smiles but was lost deep inside. So, instead of carrying all these thoughts in my head, I want to ask you: How do you heal a broken soul? I’m still at my search and¬†this song: “Oh Lord, You Are Near” reminds me that God is our perfect healer. He answers our prayers with a yes, no & wait. For he knows what is best for us. If you didn’t find the answer¬†yet, take heed your faith as the scripture says:

Psalm 139 English Standard Version (ESV)

To the choirmaster. A Psalm of David.

139 O Lord, you have searched me and known me!
2 You know when I sit down and when I rise up;
    you discern my thoughts from afar.
3 You search out my path and my lying down
    and are acquainted with all my ways.
4 Even before a word is on my tongue,
    behold, O Lord, you know it altogether.
5 You hem me in, behind and before,
    and lay your hand upon me.
6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me;
    it is high; I cannot attain it.

7 Where shall I go from your Spirit?
Or where shall I flee from your presence?
8 If I ascend to heaven, you are there!
If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there!
9 If I take the wings of the morning
and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea,
10 even there your hand shalllead me,
and your right hand shall hold me.
11 If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me,
and the light about me be night,‚ÄĚ
12 even the darkness is not dark to you;
the night is bright as the day,
for darkness is as light with you.

13 For you formed my inward parts;
you¬†knitted me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Wonderful are your works;
my soul knows it very well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you,
when I was being made in secret,
intricately woven in the depths of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my unformed substance;
in your book were written, every one of them,
the days that were formed for me,
when as yet there was none of them.

17 How precious to me are your thoughts, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!
18 If I would count them, they are more than the sand.
I awake, and I am still with you.

19 Oh that you would slay the wicked, O God!
O men of blood, depart from me!
20 They speak against you with malicious intent;
your enemies take your name in vain.
21 Do I not hate those who hate you, O Lord?
And do I not loathe those who rise up against you?
22 I hate them with complete hatred;
I count them my enemies.

23 Search me, O God, and know my heart!
    Try me and know my thoughts!
24 And see if there be any grievous way in me,
    and lead me in the way everlasting!

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The Gift

I see always good thing in them… ^_^

Whenever I wanted to go somewhere but my money isn’t enough in my pocket, I would take a walk if it’s possible. I’ll put on my headset and play the music of the day repeatedly. While walking, I’m reminding myself that people long time ago has no car and yet they travel even for miles. It’s just that we were born in this modern generation. No matter how long it will take, I don’t feel any exhaustion. And the best thing? I enjoyed walking. It has been my best gesture of meditation. For me, it’s a gift already.

But then, I just thought, I should have a car also since I feel like I need it the most. I go to different places which is very important to me like going to church to serve, houses where to meet friends, to attend teachings in Singles for Christ or to go for a choir practice, and the best part is to go to my favorite place “Corniche Beach” where I am able to meet myself in reflection… And so another goal has been listed in my projects.

I see in them the sweets I have wanted to eat for the longest time, the¬†dresses I wanted to wear, the greatest love story I’ve ever heard and I’ve been searching for… in short, the life which I admire and desire. I don’t get envious instead I’m amazed with the greatness of our God because he shows me the wants and he gives me what I needed. But sometimes I ask him, Lord can I have it also? I always wanted to know things deeply. But the answers are slowly coming.
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I’m glad and I’m grateful that God sends different gifts to me everyday. I receive them in every person I meet everyday. But of course I get upset if things weren’t on my favor. Telling myself: hmmmmmm… there is something in me that he/she doesn’t like. Anyway, I will just remain silent. I don’t feel like I’m gonna scold you as you have scolded me. There’s something inside that makes me calm. Sometimes, I ask myself: why? I should’ve defended myself or debate with you to show that I matter too. But that’s just inside my mind. I still remain silent and cheers up myself because I am learning. Somehow, I will realize that there is goodness in every situation.

To be patient and kind is one of the best gift we could ever have. I will embrace it wholeheartedly and in times that it will break me, I know I won’t be alone. I will not stand on my own because I know He will always be there to hold me and fill what’s empty in me. But being human, still I cannot take things easily. I cry. I hate but I pray. Hate is the first thing that will come, but then I write, I blog, I sing, I play guitar and I go for a long walk. By these means, I feel comfortable and relieved. I just thought that it was the simple things that makes me happy and go on with the flow of life no matter what happens.

God is so amazing but sometimes we weren’t able to notice and embrace the different gifts he has given. You too might be asking this questions of mine. We might have overlooked on every little things that makes us special. The hidden gifts we didn’t recognize. But how do we know that it’s already a gift?

Knowing myself, and I will not stop unless I get answer, there’s only one thing should be done, to search and reflect in God’s wisdom:

Ephesians 2:8
For by grace are you saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God.

1 Peter 4:10
As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace.

1 Corinthians 12:7-11
To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good. For to one is given through the Spirit the utterance of wisdom, and to another the utterance of knowledge according to the same Spirit, to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit, to another the working of miracles, to another prophecy, to another the ability to distinguish between spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, to another the interpretation of tongues. All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills.

Romans 12:6
Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith;

Luke 6:38
Give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.‚ÄĚ

James 1:5
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.

Matthew 7:11
If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!

1 Corinthians 14:1
Pursue love, and earnestly desire the spiritual gifts, especially that you may prophesy.

John 14:17
Even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.

2 Corinthians 9:15
Thanks be to God for his inexpressible gift!

Matthew 7:7
“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.

James 1:18
Of his own will he brought us forth by the word of truth, that we should be a kind of first fruits of his creatures.

Romans 12:3-10
For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith; if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; …

John 15:26
“But when the Helper comes, whom I will send to you from the Father, the Spirit of truth, who proceeds from the Father, he will bear witness about me.

1 John 3:1-3
See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Beloved, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is. And everyone who thus hopes in him purifies himself as he is pure.

Psalm 100:1-5
A Psalm for giving thanks. Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth! Serve the Lord with gladness! Come into his presence with singing! Know that theLord, he is God! It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture. Enter his gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with praise! Give thanks to him; bless his name! For the Lord is good; his steadfast love endures forever, and his faithfulness to all generations.

James 4:2
You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask.

Romans 5:17
For if, because of one man’s trespass, death reigned through that one man, much more will those who receive the abundance of grace and the free gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man Jesus Christ.

Luke 12:32
‚ÄúFear not, little flock, for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom.

The thoughts of having gifts is not to receive only but to give it willingly as you have received it freely.

The greatest gift we could have best recognize and proclaim is the love of God, as the scripture says:
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May God be praised forever! Amen.

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A Man and a Woman (Part III)

In this generation, truth about courting has been forgotten and mutual understanding is becoming uninterested. Getting into a relationship has been an awkward concern to several single men and women. Fear of losing and hurting took over. And hiding of emotions has been the replacement of our doubt. 

[“I” refers to a woman & “You” refers to a man in this blog – no intention to pinpoint a single person here. Either you find it biased or not, I will tell you this is a general¬†observation to this generation and a shout out of a single person. My dear friends, I’ll say it in advance, peace be with you all (^_~)]

 

Do not put me in your list I’m not an item. You cannot own me as if you’d won a trophy. I’m a daughter of God and you’re a son of God, commonly our heart belongs to God, no one has the right to play¬†and break it.

Like you, I have a name, call me by my name it’s a sign¬†of acknowledging my presence/ respect and I loved to call your name as I respect your presence as well… Like you, my name is the most wonderful gift to me by my parents.

If you’re going to pursue me, do not just give me a hint/ clue as if I have to chase you. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Love’s not a game like you are to play a charade. You did the first move for me to like you. I will not do anything for you to fall for me. I loved talking with¬†you but I won’t beg for your attention it will only break me. And we aren’t a high school student anymore. Like you, I can pay my bills and live on my own. I am telling you this not to boast but to inform you… this is just a reminder only. Maybe you just overlooked on my capability.

The people around us already knew it as well. But you we’re like a numb trying to cover what you saw and did nothing. If you are just trying to know me, do it once and sincerely. Be consistent and do it with a pure intention. Do not make it partially like for example, you’re dating¬†me today, the next 3 days your gonna ignore me and pursue the other one. In the same manner, please inform me so that there will be no misunderstanding. You have given me the reason to assume. Definitely my heart will be broken even if let’s say that you tried to know me only. It’s definitely offensive to me.¬†(In some instances,¬†I think it’s applicable to other man who feels what is written here. I’m not sure ~_^).

When I saw and felt your unclear intention, I left you alone and did not disturb you. I will let you find and love yourself first and I will let you enjoy what you wanted in life or whom you wanted to be with. And in the same manner,¬†do not be broken if you’d find me searching for what I love as well. Because no matter what you’d do neither I, love probably will find our special someone who’s gonna love you and I. Let’s put our trust to our God and let us not hurt each other. Do not hate rather appreciate.

Lastly, let us always remember that “God is love” (1 John 4:8). Whatever happens to the “You and I”, let us not forget that above all else, “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love. We love, because He first loved us. (1 John 4:18-19).

May God be praised forever, Amen!

 

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